If you are unable to have children you should not feel like it is the end of happiness. You might have gone for counseling at some point and thought you were comfortable with it. Then come those occasions where everyone turns up with their children and somehow you seem to stand out from the crowd and it begins to trouble you again.
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the way forward out of any situation no matter how hopeless it may seem is to have a positive attitude. You should be able to get to a point where you can talk about it openly and without fear, after all it wasn’t a choice that you made to be infertile was it. There is still a chance at being happy just don’t use having children as a way of defining your happiness.
Probably you might have gotten to a point where you were able to accept it but your spouse has never really gotten used to the idea that he cant have children with you and that’s what’s probably troubling you the most. The situation calls for understanding from both parties and you should be willing to see each other’s points of view.
Having been in the same situation myself I will tell you that this is one situation that has no clearly defined way of being dealt with. It calls for patience and understanding by both you and your spouse. If you find that there are occasions where you need to discuss this topic try talking about outside the house. Go out somewhere, for a drive, a picnic where the emotions won’t be so high.
There are sites that you can log onto as often as you like and you will always find an encouraging word there whenever you feeling low. They have helped me cope with my own situation and I’m sure they will work for you too.










