Lingham is the Sanskrit word|concept|term|text for the male|masculine sexual organ. A term|phrase|expression used in Tantric massage, it is loosely translated to “wand of light” and is understood|recognized|perceived in a broader sense than traditional|conventional|classic western thinking. The Lingham is the male body part that is|that’s|which is the channel for creativity and pleasure. It is to be respected and revered in much the same|the equivalent way as the female yoni. Lingham massage|massage therapy is used to relax|unwind|loosen up the male|man and allow him to surrender and receive pleasure|enjoyment|fun without|with no|exclusive of expectation of a certain|a particular outcome. Orgasm is not|isn’t the goal of the massage but allows|permits|enables the male|man to be in the role of the receiver and to allow|permit|enable|grant himself the pleasure|joy|enjoyment of indulging his more feminine side.

If orgasm occurs|happens|takes place it is welcomed, but it is not|it isn’t a goal|objective|aim|target. It is just as important for the male|man to learn to relax|unwind|loosen up|chill out and receive as it is for the woman and the Lingham massage is the|may be the|could be the perfect place to begin|thing to begin with. Before|Prior to|Ahead of|Previous to|In advance of beginning, freshen up with a shower or a relaxing|calming|soothing|restful bath. It is important|It is necessary|It is vital|It’s important|It will be important that both the giver and the receiver be relaxed. Create a calm environment|surroundings|atmosphere|setting|situation with music, candles or scented oils. Practice deep breathing to calm|relax yourself and your|as well as your partner|companion|significant other. Let go of|Rid yourself of the worries|concerns|headaches|woes|stress|unease and cares of the world|today and take time to just be together.

After you have|you’ve finished your preparations|preps|arrangements have the receiver lie on his back in a comfortable|relaxed|comfy|cozy location. Elevate his head with pillows so he can watch the massage and place a towel under his hips. A pillow can be used|should be considered|works extremely well|can be utilised here as well if it is more comfortable and creates better access to the Lingham. His legs should be|ought to be drawn up comfortably|in a relaxed position and slightly|somewhat open. Take several deep breaths together before you begin. Then add just a touch of oil to the hands, rubbing them together to warm and soften them before making|prior to making contact with the receiver’s body. First massaging|rubbing down the legs, thighs and abdomen, continue|carry on|proceed on to the chest arms, neck and shoulders, massaging the nipples as well. When the receiver is sufficiently relaxed|calm|comfortable|tranquil add additional|extra|further oil to the shaft of the Lingham and the testicles. Very gently|softly|lightly massage the scrotum until it relaxes. Massage the area between the testicles and the anus. These areas are tender and may be|could be unaccustomed to touch so go slowly|slowly but surely and carefully|attentively.

When you move on to the erotic male massage of the Lingham, work your hands gently up and down the shaft, varying|changing|altering the speed and pressure|weight of your touch. Place your right hand at the base of the shaft, squeeze briefly|for a short period|momentarily then gently|softly|lightly slide your hand up and off; alternate hands, performing the same procedure back and forth between them several times. Next reverse the direction|path starting|beginning|starting up at the top of the shaft, squeezing lightly|softly|gently|delicately and then continuing|proceeding down the shaft. Now massage the head with the palm of your hand moving it around the top of the shaft. The nerves the Lingham connect to other parts of|regions of the body, so as you work to relax the Lingham the receiver’s whole being will relax|unwind.

Throughout the male|masculine tantric massage the Lingham may soften and harden multiple|several|numerous|an array of times. This is as it should be. If the receiver comes close to orgasm divert the massage so as to delay|hold-up the release. Delaying|Putting off|Deferment of the orgasm five or six times will make the release|launch more intense should you|in the event you both decide this is the desired end. A Lingham massage may release pent up|locked up|bottled up emotions so do not be concerned|worry|be worried if the receiver has a strong emotional response|reaction. Comfort and accept the emotions|feelings|sensations of your partner and allow him|enable him with a full release, whatever it is. Once the massage has come to an end, the receiver may wish to|desire to|want to rest|relax or sleep|get to sleep.

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